Well, there are two schools of thought at work if you find another women to travel with you: Depending on where you go, you either increase the target size by twofold, or you decrease your chance of being the one picked for mayhem by 50%. Neither are good options. Travel with a guy, preferably one who is armed!

Or just go to the Philippines by yourself, we're safer there than in any major U.S. city or I can put you in touch with all sorts of women divers there.