My in-laws are all about the catholic midnight mass. I am not a very religous person ( side note - I know there is a God, I accept that Jesus Christ died for our sins) I am very dishearted by the commercialism of Christmas.
There is a radio station that has a show called "The Blue Moon Cafe' " they play versions of songs that are not played very often, and off the beaten path artist. Lots of Bonnie Rait, Van Morrison, John Prine, Tom Waites... But the weekend closet to Christmas they but a Christmas Show out. I am not a big carrol fan, but I look forward to this show.
Christmas eve night we have our big meal of either turkey or ham (this year it will be ham)
We typically open one present just before leaving for mass, this is how I proposed to my wife by the way. I gave her the ring just before leaving her parents house.
When we get home we send the kids to bed and finish the kids presents before we get to bed.
Christmas morning we open the rest of the presents. Now if you were paying attention ealier you would have noticed that I said Christmas Eve dinner, this is because my daughter's birthdy is also on Christmas Day. We allow her to pick a dinner choice on that day.
Now it has become my habit to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas as it relates to me. I few moments away from everything, (It has to do with me and my relationship with God) It is silent reflection rather than boistrous celebration.
Well right, wrong or indiffrent, that is how my fmily celebrate the Christmas season.
For what it is worth I enjoy learning how other enjoy thier holidays and other celebrations.
I had a friend in Pa. who was married by a Bali (sp) priest. It was held outside in a circle. At the end of the final passage eveyone faced east, bowed in silent prayer. All during the ceremony there were 3 hawks circling around, this was considered a good omen. It was unique to me, and I enjoyed the opportunity very much. It was many years ago, and I don't remember much more than that.
I rambled on sorry, please continue...
Reply With Quote
