It's usually the guy who:
1. Can dive twin 149's with 4 stage bottles and not break a sweat.
2. Is just as happy eating a bloody steak as he is with quiche.
3. Is secure enough with his masculinity to wear pink.
4. Will take the time to teach children to read.
5. Will have decent manners.
6. Will never strike a child or a woman.
7. Will kick the ever loving crap out of anyone who does (#6)
8. Will share with others even if it means personal hardship.
9. Doesn't need nitrox for post dive activities.
shall i go on ?
Cheers