I think that member of your dive group needs to take a step down. Relying on one person, expecting one person to have all of your problem solutions up their sleeve can be dangerous in it self. What's the plan if it's you that had gas problems. Also, what if you weren't close enough to the problem to assist, had to bail early from the dive for whatever reason and so not even there etc.
Seasnake makes a valid point, we are all spare air carriers for each and every one of the other people we dive with, in case they have major problems with air supply and we're the ones that have to assist. So we should always have enough air left in our cylinder to get us and An Other to the surface safely in case of problems. Provided you have this, then obligation sorted... assuming you are running on a no deco schedule, then not too hard to manage.